“Internet Companionship”

I woke up this morning with a thought in my spirit.  There is a crisis going on that I would like to address.  I have seen to often, time and time again where women, and even women in the church, go online to find companionship.

The problem with this scenerio is that many times these women have children in the home.  This is where I want to send a caution to women in the body of Christ.

As a single woman, and parent, until God unites you to the right mate, you need to be married to Jehovah! I am watching women in the body, not sensitive to the importance of their walk before their children, hooking up with men on the internet.  After only knowing them for a couple of weeks, or a month or so, then inviting them to come and reside in their home.  This is the most foolish mistake that a woman (or man) can make.

Why would you subject your children to this type behavior?  Do you know that the life that you lead before your children is the greatest witness of salvation to your children?  If you will violate their secure environment to bring someone into your dormain that you do not even know, what makes you think that they should trust or believe in the God that you are representing? 

I believe the answer is found in the fact that you are self-absorbed  and selfish that you do not even consider their need for security. 

My sista’s this type of ill responsibility must stop.  You owe your seed more than this!  I beg with you to consider your ways before God, and your children.  What  kind of legacy are you leaving for them to follow? 

If you will lower your standard this low, what hope shall they believe in?  It is now time for us to raise the bar!  You are better than this!  Why are you “settling?”

No, I believe when you know who you are, as well as your value,  you will not be subject to your base nature.  You are too beautiful, too intelligent, and too gifted to function this way. 

Reconsider your decision!  No matter how you have thought it through, and decided it will work, may you hear God’s voice in this matter.  May the fear of God come upon you, and convict and convince you in the wisdom of God. 

Most importantly, make the right decision for your children.  They deserve so much more. 

They that wait upon the Lord, shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as an eagle……..

So for all of you that are “desperate” out there, wait I say on the Lord!  He has so much more for you.

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